Relationships are very exciting, but imagine the frustration you will feel if you’re still at the phase where you’re still wondering if your man likes you or not. This is the worst feeling for a lady because it is very distracting due to the fact that you’re always thinking if you’re setting yourself up for a late disappointment, rejection or an unhappy relationship.
Ladies, are you still at this disturbing phase? Worry no more! Here are some warning signs to give you heads up about your love interest behavior.
1. HE FLIRTS AROUND:
A man that flirts with everything in skirts or pants definitely is not into you. Such a man has no respect for your presence in his life and he wouldn’t regard you either if you leave him. He is just an asshole with a sweet mouth, Such men want nothing serious.
2. HE RARELY COMMUNICATE WITH YOU:
If he can stay up to a week without texting or calling you and when you hit him up, he seemed unbothered with no real explanation. Then he just doesn’t like you and not talking to you makes him even more happy.
3. HE ONLY WANTS TO SEE YOU AT NIGHT: Any guy that wishes to see a lady after midnight doesn’t consider her special to him, he only sees her as a booty call and an access each time he needs to de-stress. So, if your man is always setting up meetings with you at hours past midnight, forget him! He doesn’t like you.
4. NO JEALOUSY:
Men are jealous creatures, they tend to get possessive and protective over the one they genuinely care about. Now as we all know, too much jealousy is bad but the absence of the littlest jealousy is a warning sign that he might not really care so much about you and whoever you relate with.
5. HE STARES AT OTHER WOMEN INAPPROPRIATELY IN YOUR PRESENCE:
Any man that does this! Should be trashed quickly. This says a lot and it definitely shows that he has no respect for you and your presence. You deserve better.
6. HE DOESN’T REGARD YOUR OPINIONS:
If he doesn’t ask for your view point on some issues or completely ignores your view when expressed, it’s a sign! Because such a man is quite arrogant and he sure thinks he knows so much, while you know nothing because your opinion doesn’t matter in the relationship, he decides everything.
7. YOU DON’T KNOW HIS FRIENDS AND HE DOESN’T KNOW YOURS:
If he is always brushing aside couples visitation to his friends or your friends, preferring to stay with you alone all day, everyday. Be careful because he might be ashamed to show you off to his mate, thereby preferring to keep you his secret for as long as possible.
8. HE AVOIDS ALONE TIME WITH YOU:
Does he always give excuses or cancel plans when it’s time for you guys to spend some quality time together? If yes, He is not into you. This is because men like to be intimidate with their beloved partners, not just sex. They like to spend quality time just being around their woman, so if you are being avoided, leave him.
9. YOUR GUTS TELLS YOU:
Sometimes when you’re in a wrong relationship or liking the wrong person, your intuition tells you. You just kind of have a feeling that something is not right about the situation, so always listen to your guts and never ignore what your mind is telling you. You might just save yourself from unnecessary hurt.
10. HE DOESN’T LABEL YOUR RELATIONSHIP:
A man that doesn’t identify you as his wife, fiancée or girlfriend definitely doesn’t care for you. This is because such men let you get comfortable and make you believe you’re his significant other but you really are not. He keeps leading you on while introducing you to his mates as his very “good” friend.
So ladies, if you feel uncomfortable in your relationship due to the fact that your man exhibits any of these characters, do the needful quickly.
I shall be writing on the 10 Signs to watch out for when a lady isn’t into you next, so stay connected for that post💕
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