Неllo blog fam! Let’s talk about friendship and crushes.
Having a best friend definitely mean you both have love for each other, care about each other and do everything else best friends do for one another. I mean that’s what’s best friends are for.
But how do you find out if your best friend has a deeper kind of love for you and he/she wishes to be more than just friends with you.
1. THEY ARE ALWAYS AVAILABLE:
Ok! A best friend should always be there for you when you need them, but sometimes your best friend might be indispensable, unavailable because of their own personal issues. But, a best friend in love will always be at your beck and call, available 24/7 and 1 day, all you need to do is put a call across and they will come running. Even when they might not be available, they will make sure they get you the needed help from miles away.
2. THEY SPEAK ILL OF YOUR PARTNER:
They find faults in all your significant other does, never getting along with your partner, always claiming they will do better if they were your partner, I mean always comparing themselves to your partner and discrediting your partner in the process. Now because they have emotional feelings for you, they will not accept or like anybody you end up dating.
3. THEY ENJOY ALONE TIMES WITH YOU:
When it’s just the two of you on an outing, at home, in the library, running errands together excluding other people, this seems to be their favorite moments. He/she prefers you both together alone than with a group of friends and always seem a little upset when your togetherness is interrupted.
4. YOU ARE ALWAYS SHOWERED WITH COMPLIMENTS:
You look great, radiant, good or bad? It doesn’t matter! You will constantly score some compliments from your bestie. Now it is a normal thing to receive compliments but in this case they are more intense and personal compliments like about your personality and how perfect you are and how lucky they are to have you and lots of other pleasantries a person attracted to you only will say.
5. YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN EVERY TIME:
They encourage you every time and in everything. In school, they will always encourage you to do your best and never give up, on social media they read all your posts, like all your pictures and share your content with others. They are just always supportive of your endeavors.
6. YOU CATCH THEM STARING:
More than one occasion have you caught them looking at you with awe in their eyes, awkward! But you don’t count it as anything, you just playfully slap them and move on. I’m here to tell you those stares tell a love story and your clue to finding out about your close by love interest.
And what do you do if you realize or think your best friend is in love with you? Simple! Ask, I was going to write confront but that’s not so nice😅. Just ask because most times he/she will not come clean due to the fear of losing your friendship. So do the honors!
If you feel the same, you can build up something meaningful but if you don’t see them as anyone other than a friend and you think a relationship will ruin your friendship, you should gently let them know with reasons and facts.
Finally, I will say a best friend should remain a best friend, as a love relationship between you guys can destroy your friendship but then you’ll never know it might work out afterwards.
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